FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App
authentic ratingA BDSM and kink dating app with a decent concept, destroyed by monetization and weak moderation. Verification gets stuck on 'pending' for a day or more. Real users exist but are outnumbered by OnlyFans sellers, bots, and scammers.
19real score
4.32store star
21,951ratings
About the rating
storeAvg 4.32 vs textAvg 2.90 reflects a real split: part of the niche audience values the existence of a kink-oriented space, while most are disappointed by monetization and moderation quality. Reviews are varied and specific, a sign of a real audience.
Strengths
What users love
- The existence of a legitimate kink dating platform is valued by an audience that cannot openly state their interests anywhere else. Interest filters and built-in events are useful mechanics.
Weak spots
What users hate
- Account verification regularly stalls
- Blocking access for days. A large share of profiles are OF sellers
- Bots
- Or scammers. For gay men the app is nearly useless: straight men appear even with correct settings.
Who it is for
People who openly identify with BDSM or kink culture and are looking for partners with matching interests. Requires patience and willingness to filter manually.
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