FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App

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4.3of 5 · store
21,951ratings on the App Store
500reviews read

An editorial reading of the saved reviews

A BDSM and kink dating app with a decent concept, destroyed by monetization and weak moderation. Verification gets stuck on 'pending' for a day or more. Real users exist but are outnumbered by OnlyFans sellers, bots, and scammers.

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What people use it for

People who openly identify with BDSM or kink culture and are looking for partners with matching interests. Requires patience and willingness to filter manually.

What reviews praise

The existence of a legitimate kink dating platform is valued by an audience that cannot openly state their interests anywhere else.
Interest filters and built-in events are useful mechanics.

What reviews complain about

Account verification regularly stalls, blocking access for days.
A large share of profiles are OF sellers, bots, or scammers.
For gay men the app is nearly useless: straight men appear even with correct settings.